Age difference?

Non-Phish General
#22

back when i was like 17 i hated guys in their early 20’s so much, or as they would be known: “20 year old guys”

any girl i liked would be involved with some 20 year old guy and they would be so proud of it so much to there being a distinction between “kids” or “boys” and “guys”

they all wanted guys and i was too young for anybody my own age…still am for that matter.

shortly after my 20th birthday a platonic chick-friend of mine had to inform me that i had become a “20 year old guy” after some high school girl was creeping me out.

fuckin’ a!

now girls my age are into 30 year olds and stuff. Its weird. I never got it. Its like some girls just need some kind of black and white sense of maturity so they go and find these 20-30 year old zeros just to show that they can run with the adults.

sigh

::wakes up a 30 year old guy::

#23

chris hansen’d

#24

My first girlfriend was 8 years older than me. It didn’t work out, but I’ll say this much: the sex was fucking spectacular. There’s just something about that age difference that makes it so money.

#25

^They know what and how they want it, alls you have to do is get… umm yeah!

#26

Frankly, I AMAZED at older guys who are dating 17-18 year olds. I’m 27 now and 10 years isn’t THAT big a difference in age but I couldn’t DREAM of dating someone that old for more than two seconds. I mean have you tried TALKING to these girls? It’s all about high-school this and the mall that and I-got-detention this…it’s all this stuff that I stopped giving a crap about 10 years ago and yet for these teen girls, that’s their entire life. What do you talk to them about?? I’m sorry…I’m sure true love is occasionally the case but whenever I see an older guy with a gal that young I ALWAYS assume that he’s just putting up with her blabbing for the nookie since there’s no way that he’s in it for the stimulating conversation.

Stevo

#27

i hate the fact that i’m officially “too old” for some chicks now. i have female friends that are 21, 22 years old or so, and there have been a couple situations i have found myself in that i’ve had to reluctantly walk away from due simply to the age factor. i just can’t be the Old Creepy Guy.

#28

#29

i hope you know that this isn’t the Members Pictures thread, Neck

#30

but…but…nevermind.

#31

oooooh snap!!!

#32

It’d be a lot cooler if he did.

#33

party at the moon tower.

#34

alright, alright, alright…

#35

The last 7 posts were like a mini “Overheard on OKP” thread. Priceless, everyone. Fuckin’ priceless.

And charliejack, you’d be surprised at how many girls at that age (and younger) actually have good heads on their shoulders. That’s the case in Knoxville atleast. I swear there’s something in the water or smokestacks er somethin’…

#36

^Yeah, I was going to say that to Charlie, Guelah. Once in a while you get a girl that acts way older than she is. It’s rare, but it does happen, and I love it when they do come around.

#37

oh it’s not that the girls i know are like typical immature 21 year-olds. they’re not at all. very cool chicks, all of them. it’s that i’m just old.

#38

I think this all has to do with the level of maturity the two parties are on. I know 40 year olds that act younger than me, and I’m 25. I know 20 year olds that have their shit together more than any 40 year old. maturity and life experiences are key. A mature twenty something ( I’m not quite sure I believe the same rule applies while you still have a “teen” attached to your name) and a fun-loving 40 something can be a great thing…besides, girls are always more mature than guys and for them to find their emotional counterparts, sometimes the have to go older. Smae goes for guys… older women may not be as adventurous or outgoing as they’d liek to be… I see it as a great match.

I also may be biased since my parents have such a large age difference. My mom was 21 when my dad married her - he was 38. That’s 17 years folks… and he had a wife and two kids when they met… he was unhappy, of course, but you’d think if any union was doomed from the start it would’ve been that one. There have been rought patches, sure, but they remain one of the happiest couples I’ve ever seen… and that’s not just b/c they’ve hid the “dirt’ from me… gettign older, I’ve become privy to it. I even asked my mom recently that if she had ii to do all over again, would she marry someone that much older than her and she said " probably…him and I keep each other balanced. I just can’t handle his smooth jazz shit.” LOL!!!

#39

^cute post moma

"Ultimately, we came to realize that what people were saying revealed more about them than about us. Our relationship had become a Rorschach test of their own prejudices and insecurities

#40

age really is just a number.

#41

Wait, so you’re telling me that Jebus didn’t decide that after however many trips around the sun you are not able to be defined by exactly how many days you have spent alive? Oh, um. Just remember, there are only legal minimums which can get you in legal trouble. Other than that, the sky’s the limit!