Am I right/wrong about being mad at my g/f?

Non-Phish General
#1

Let me first say that Umphrey’s McGee has been my favorite band for the past four years. I have seen them any time they have been within two hours of Richmond, Va. They play tomorrow at The National (a nice venue here in Richmond); a concert I have been waiting for since they announced it in June.

Yesterday, Cate (my g/f) asks me about what time we should go to get our tickets and it occurs to me “oh shit, we can get on the VIP list”. I explain to my g/f that the beer distributor we buy from has a private box and 2 VIP passes to each concert for our bar. I tell Cate, “I will ask Bridget (the manager with the tickets) to put our name on the list”.

The next say I see Bridget and ask about the tickets and she tells me they are gone. A few hours later a friend of my g/f’s comes in and starts teasing my about something I don’t understand (“haha”, “you got burned”, “sucks to be you”, etc…). I ask her what she is talking about and she tells me to call Cate.

Me: Why is Lauren (the friend) making fun of me?
Cate: Oh, you are gonna be so mad…
Me: What?
Cate: I got the VIP tickets last night after you fell asleep for Lauren and myself…
Me: Wait, I was going to get them for you and me! Why would you bring Lauren along? She hates Umphrey’s.
Cate: I forgot that you wanted the tickets…
Me: I was the one who came up with the idea! You didn’t even know there were VIP tickets.

Now she is calling me an asshole for being mad at her. My point is she would have never had know about the VIP tickets if I hadn’t said anything, and I was getting them the next morning for us. Her friend thinks UM sucks, but wants to go to score some rolls. And the VIP is sweet (free ticket, free food, free beer, two private lounges, a private bar, a private bathroom, and box seats overlooking the stage directly above).

Am I wrong to be pissed? My g/f and her friend couldn’t name an UM song even if I gave them words that rhymed with the name of the track. And for that matter, her friend keeps texting me about “how awesome the VIP lounge is gonna be” and “enjoy paying $5 for a beer”.

#2

If my special lady went and bought a pair of tix for her and her gf to a show, and she knew I was going to buy those tix for us, and she didn’t suggest getting more tix…well then, it sounds like your lady friend doesn’t want to go to the show with you.

Right or wrong it sounds like it’s over, my friend.

Sorry.

:-/

edit: Actually, I’m not sorry. If what you say is true then your girlfriend is a schemer and her friend is a cunt. 86 that piece of strange.

#3

yeah, I’d be pretty mad. Just that your girl would do something that bitchy and then be so ho-hum and haha about it.

after the first read I thought the friend of your GF was a guy…in that case, I’d be way more pissed.

#4

I’d be on a rampage dude. Especially since her friend is a little custy bitch who just wants to score some drugs. But hey, if you’re like me, nothings gonna keep you from see the UM. Shake it off, buy a ticket, and never mention VIP tickets to her again. Damn, thats lame bro.

EDIT: And as for the friend calling you talking about how awesome it will be, just get back stage. Get back stage and smoke some bowls with jake and brendan and then call and tell them how awesome it is, and to enjoy smoking bowls with the peasants.

#5

yeah, rolls destroy brains anyway

stupid little bitches

#6

TELL HER YOU HAVE THE BALLS YOU MAKE THE RULES.

when that fails, cry and break up with her for being a douchnozzle and sell her friend some bunk rolls.

paybacks a bitch.

#7

oh and let her retarded friend know that VIP seats doesnt mean VIP molly…

tell her to suck a clit… a big hairy UM wook clit at that.

#8

you might want to give one or two of those rolls to the sloth…

#9

Either way I plan to have a good time. A good 7-8 people I know should be there, and I was going to go no matter anyways.

Smoked a bowl a few minutes ago and it doesn’t seem like such a big deal. Just annoyed though. (sigh, relationships…)

#10

exactly fuck all the drama just go and have a good time man

#11

#12

Thats great - I agree. How old are these girls - 6? rediculous.

#13

yeah that is weak sauce for sure!!!

#14

Seriously man…fuck that bitch. Just steal the tickets and be like…“oh, I didn’t think you actually wanted them”. Flip that shit around on her. A little topsy turvy action. They’re your tickets man.

#15

Marry that girl!

#16

In all seriousness, there is no reason that people who love each other would treat each other, or by extension allow each other to be treated, like shit.

Also, if smoking some grass made the situation seem “not so bad” then I think you should lay off the pipe for a while.

Kick her ass to the curb…to the mother-ephin’ curb. I mean, only if you want to respect yourself…cuz she sure don’t…

(to the curb)

#17

Plus, anyone spells “Kate” with a C just sounds like a bitch.

#18

So she said 'oh you are going to be so mad…" and is now annoyed that you are. The bright side is that she is definitely female.

#19

Exactly!

#20

sounds like she’s not that into you.