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#10

^^ To be fair, if you are going to express your unpopular opinions on a public forum, you should get used to the idea that your opinions are going to get criticized. Saying things like you would be disappointed to see Billy sit in with Phish or that you are a serious musician and think Fishman songs aren’t worth your time (implying that you are a more serious musician that Fishman), are going to get criticized because not everyone shares your opinion. Get used to it.

Your options are; 1. Say your piece and accept that not everyone is going to agree with you or 2. Don’t post your opinions if your scared that people won’t agree with you.

#11

  1. I agree with the OP. Of course we should all be considerate, reasonable individuals, even in disagreement.

  2. I haven’t seen the posts you cite as examples, but I find them surprising. Seems the exception to the rule.

  3. I think you’re overreacting a little bit. All they said was “here’s the right forum for this” and it is - this is the section for discussion about the site itself, and that’s what this thread is about. It’s nothing personal at all; nobody is trying to shoot you down, gang up on you, make you feel unwelcome, or even disagree. In fact, I think it’s safe to say all of the regulars around here would agree that “If you disagree with someone, do it in a fashion that is respectful to the person” is dead on.

#12

^ lol we are just talking about all the new users in general and trying to give tips on keeping the boards clean and nice to use.

if anyone here ever seems legitimately mad at you and they have over 1,000 posts or so, they’re probably joking or you misunderstood them. we are nice. you are nice, too. keep posting.

#13

^^^YOu missed my point. The point is disagree with me all you want. Just don’t be an asshole about it. I never implied I was a more serious musician than Fishman. I meant that since I have a trained ear, I don’t like to hear bad notes.

#14

^^ Exactly. Like Ant posts a shirtless picture in Members Pictures and of course we’re all going to make comparisons to how he looks like a 12 year old girl, but he doesn’t let it get to him. It’s called good old fashioned ribbing. No harm no foul.

#15

Well then maybe it sounds like you’re implying that you’re a more serious musician than those of us that do like Fish songs…regardless…watch how you make yourself sound. You could criticize the Fish songs without adding in comments like “I’m a serious musician” and all the sudden your comment comes across as a lot less condescending. Just think about it, is all I’m saying.

#16

“12 year old girl on crack” is what you meant

#17

12-year-old girl? ah you assholes.

I QUIT.

#18

Be nice.

Good plan!

#19

In one online community I was part of years ago, we had no rules save one: “Don’t be an asshole.”

It’s really that simple.

#20

I think that one-rule system will work here too, so long as not searching before starting a new thread can be considered being an asshole. :wink:

#21

Assholes are part of the fun sometimes.

#22

“I have a trained ear”???

You seem a bit pretentious IMO

#23

^ Thank you. I can’t believe I agree with you about something.

#24

So I start a thread about being nice, and then I have someone I don’t know judging me.
I’m getting sick of defending myself but here goes again: I’m not bragging, trying to demean anyones opinion, or being pretentious. Here is the definition for ear training. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ear_training
I have scored 90 and above in every aural test so, yes, I am confident saying that I have a trained ear. I’ve dedicated my life to it. So call me pretentious but I wasn’t saying that my opinion was more valuable because of that. All I was saying is that people with trained ears cringe when they hear bad notes. I didn’t even mention that until I was chastised for having an unpopular opinion.

FUCK!!

#25

^ Dude please nobody is out to get you. Take a step back and read the post he’s referring to as if it was written by someone besides yourself. It does come across as a bit pretentious. Nobody likes to hear bad notes, and even someone with a basic understanding of musical coherence can identify a misplaced note. Now before you get upset at me, please realize that I am not attacking you either. I am just attempting to explain to you why your post came across as being pretentious. And by the way, if you’re sick of defending yourself, simply don’t post anything and everyone will forget this thread exists in a matter of hours.

#26

Who said “get the shit out of your ears?”

That’s low, mister. If I had a rubber hose I’d…

#27

Being kind is favorable. Proving a point is one thing, doing it in a friendly manner is even better (and more impressive, it’s easy to be a dick)

#28

I agree. There is no place for rudeness here. But dude you ought to relax. No one is mad at you or thinks yer a bad guy. It’s just annoying to have a missplaced thread. Plain and simple. And fishman tunes are a joke. A joke referring to Fish’s horrible singing voice. Its a chance to relax and laugh it up a little bit.

#29

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CMNry4PE93Y