I think you’re speaking from personal experience, though. My girlfriend masturbates but has never came on her or with me. And it’s not like you have to come for sex to be satisfying or good. Anyway, let me finish my nonsense by pointing out that my girlfriend has more than once masturbated in her car while driving.
^^^Big up’s to girlfriend… she must have one hell of an imagination… which I must admit, I lack ( hense the impresive amout of porn that I have collected that would, no doubt, put ANY man on this board to shame…).
But also to point out the fact that, based upon no factual evidence of my own, I’m guessing that you and your gf are probably in that new, refreshing, can’t -wait -to -rip -each -other’s-clothes-off period in y’all relationship… which in that case, then yes, sex can be fullfilling without cumming, but when you’re in a 5 year+ relationship… cumming matters DAMMIT!!! ( can anyone back me up on this?)
I mean all of that “feelin fullfilled” bullshit leaves after about a year or so… and then you can get down to the " Ok, what are we going to do to spice up our sex life" conversation. (now whether you choose, midgets, strippers, porn, swinging,webcams, toys, mutual masterbation, or role playing is COMPLETELY up to you and your significant other
This is how I explain it to my husband. Men masturbate, they shoot their load… and then it’s nap time… smiles and all. It is the main course, unless you are one of those chosen few that can keep going after you’ve cum. ( my hat’s off to you… )
A woman mastubates and that like an appetizer… foreplay( that YOU don’t have to put any work into) if you will. It’s going to get her primed for the main event… not BE the main event.
So, my thoughts on self loving are this… DO IT anytime, anywhere, as long as it’s going to enhance your sex life and not deprive your partner of some actual genital-to-genital action. If y’all masturbate like 5 times a day… that’s cool… but when your woman want to get busy… you better stand a deliver… if you know what I mean.
^ Listen to the lady…cumming matters…My girl makes me work all night to make her come sometimes…I also don’t let her leave the job half done…Too much masturbation can ruin a good sex life, but so can no masturbation…If you’re not in a relationship, go all day…but if you’ve got another’s needs to attend to, practice a bit of self-restraint…it builds character anyways…
Here, here Goldenroad… you’re a good man. Everything in moderation… chocolate ice cream, spending money, and masturbation while in a relationship… at least that’s what my mommy always said…
shit, i’m being watched. i dont know if i should tell you guys what i answered in fear of being harassed by the new people who i dont know on this board. so im just gonna say one thing… it rocks…even though i didn’t know it did for awhile. thats all im gonna say
me and Rosie P. were dating for quite some time, then we had a rough month or so, so we broke up and over the next few years i mingled with her 5 little friends, but about a year ago i broke up with the last of the sisters. so now, i choose the only way… WET DREAMS! ;D