Sounds like you get the picture pretty well, Cari 
To answer a question from your post, no my parents did not “allow” me to spread my wings. They cut me off financially when I was 18 or 19 in an attempt to curtail me. My response? Fuck you, I will do it myself… and the best part of that was that I did it!
It really is satisfying to know that I made everything happen in spite of them. There were a few times that I would some how get in their good graces and they would do a few things, but the minute I did something they didn’t like, BAM it was gone. I got tired of them having things to hold over my head, so finally I took all their power away and it was awesome! Been that way ever since.
I wish it didn’t have to be this way or the way it’s been since I can remember, but there comes a point when you’re just tired of all the BS. I want peace and if she can’t give me that, then I will wait till she can. I’m done going on her terms. She can tow the line or stay away and that’s how it’s going to be.
And as for Makenzie, I told Mom they could talk to or see her whenever they want…but she can stay her ass at a hotel 
Good luck man, the OKP is always gonna be here for ya!
