i just wish i could go back in time and fix things. i miss her already.
i do love her with all my heart and i know that her moving back home will make her happier in the long run, it just hurts so badly.
oh and hose, the rock band is hers…so now i have to go buy my own posters 
i feel your pain man…i got some heavy regrets going on right now too, it fuckin sucks…I hate regrets more than anything else I think, wish I had some wisdom or something to throw your way but I don’t have a whole lot of that right now…been pretty rough round these parts lately
^^You want her back? If you really do, then you have to try to find a way to get her back if she’s that important to you. On the other hand, if the strip bar lie was actually a means to precipitate the breakup, then you probably won’t bother trying at all.
In either case, there’s an opportunity to learn something terribly important about yourself, although neither path will be especially easy. I honestly wish you the best through all of this. PM me if things get too tough and you need to just externalize.
Sage is wise.
yeah man it sucks. dusty wont have a mom now, we wont be going to shows together, and its not like she will be in town so we could still see each other. its all the way on the other side of the world. 
dumped the booze (drinking caused some problems sometimes), cut up the debit card (spending is a problem, dont have a c. card), doing anything and everything i can to work this out. but i dont think it will. such a draining experience 
i do want her back. i really do and i am working on things. this was by no means an attempt to initiate a break up.
Man girls are frustrating creatures. I met this girl the other night at the brewery, and we sat there and had a face-to-face, in-depth, intense conversation. This girl bought me a beer (an expensive one too), told me how very glad she was to have met me and how great I am, gave me huge hug when she left, gave me her phone number, and now I find out she has a boyfriend. 
And I have so much in common with this chick, it’s uncanny. The bright spot is, according to my buddy who introduced me to her, she doesn’t seem to like her boyfriend much these days, so maybe that’s good for me.
Basically what I’m saying is, you just can’t figure women out. You just can’t. The human female is the most confusing, enigmatic creature on the planet.
^ She gave you her number? Then that boyfriend is on the way out. You’re in man.
She may be hedging a bet, or testing the waters to see if she’s still got what it takes to attract a man. Be wary, but definitely leave your options open. I found Marie because she had to turn away from her first husband, so you never know about affairs of the heart.
I was gonna say to just call her, but not call her like you’re asking her out or anything, and then this popped into my noggen.
JERRY: But we gotta make it seem like we’re not calling for dates.
ELAINE: Then why are we calling?
JERRY: Good question. (More to himself than to Elaine) Why are we calling?
(Both start chanting “why are we calling…”, thinking deeply)
ELAINE: (Loud) Oh! (Jerry has a surprised look) I’ve got it! I’ve got it! We’re calling just to say, “I’m there for you.”
JERRY: (Nodding, trying it out) “I’m there for you.”
ELAINE: Then, after a period of being “there for you”, we slowly remove the two words “for you”, and we’re just (Makes a “ta-da!” gesture) “there”.
Hahaha, thanks for the wisdom guys. I called her today to go get a beer, and she has to work until late, so she can’t go. But she wants to go do something soon, so that’s a good sign.
I’m gonna go ahead and confess something that changes the situation too: I’ve never had a girlfriend. I’ve never been with a girl at all. I have zero experience with women in intimate situations. It just never was something that I chased after, including now; this just dropped into my lap. Seems too good to be true because I’m an overweight guy and this girl is gorgeous. I know some people don’t care about looks that much, but everyone cares to an extent. I’m not Jabba the Hut, but I’m not Brad Pitt (or whoever girls like) either.
So it’s like, am I someone that this girl would even consider dating? My natural bad habit of self-doubt tells me no, but my optimistic side says it’s possible. What do you guys think?
You said it yourself: “Basically what I’m saying is, you just can’t figure women out. You just can’t. The human female is the most confusing, enigmatic creature on the planet.”
d00d, stop sweatin the whys and the wherefors. She recognizes something in you that’s beyond the physical package right now, otherwise she wouldn’t have invested the time. Hardest thing to do is to refrain from overplaying this dance.
We’re all different in how we perceive one another. Some of us are tied to the physical, some to the intellectual, and others to the emotional expressions of others. You’ve impressed her with something, and whatever it was, I’ll ber it was just you and not some personna you tried to project.
Your candor and honesty has always been obvious here on the OPK, and if you were you with her as you are here with us, it’s totally understandable why she would be interested, in spite of your insecurities about yourself. Who knows, maybe she intuited that and finds it endearing. Until you guys spend more time together and communicate yourselves to one another, there will be a hundred million questions you’ll be asking yourself and us about this.
But it’s all very exciting, and engaging in this dance, no matter what the eventual outcome, is one of the best experiences in life. So relax and enjoy the dance.
I am thoroughly confused at the moment.
I just got The Office: Season Six on DVD in the mail.
Never ordered it, never paid for it, and no charges on the my credit/debit cards (I was a bit lit up on Friday).
No receipt in the package, just a card for “buzzbo”, which has a facebook and twitter.
I contact the person, and I was chosen at random through facebook even though I wasn’t a fan of them (or even heard of them).
This seems like an extreme scam or something… and I’m scared.
But hey, I like The Office… so score one for the good guy I suppose… maybe. Possibly.
^ haha hopefully it’s not a scam, heh.
I hear ya on the tales of women. I’m ‘hangin’ out with a few right now. I love females butt don’t think I culd be with just one right now, havin’ too much fun talkin’ to sooo many! haha
Workin’ today, gettin’ home around 11 tonite and gotta clean and pack because I’m goin’ to Austin tomorrow! Wooo hooo…I’m excited, a bit anxious butt can’t wait for Phiiiiish!
Dude, check for Anthrax and shit…sketchy
I would say go for it man…be very subtle. You have made the initial call, now it is kind of a waiting game. She will call if and when she is ready. You got the phone number though…THATS HUGE! Good luck! 
Just ask her if she likes trouser snakes.
Bill, you are a great guy, and your wisdom is always much appreciated. I also appreciate what you said about me as a person, that really makes me feel good. Anyways, I’m certainly not gonna overplay this. She said she wished she could chill with me instead of going to the show. It just feels good to know that there is a gorgeous girl that wants to spend time with me, whether it’s bound to be a romantic involvement or not. I just like being around her.
That would have been a much sweeter post with some images…or links…just sayin. Am I expected to have to google everything myself these days?
Well that just got me thinking about how not everything is actually represented by the web. I mean, … of course it isn’t. But don’t we each kinda look to the web as some kind of amazing new world encyclopedia? You know what I’m getting at? We’re using teh interwebz to simulate the ability to know everything.
It’s great though, that some things get to be exclusively in regular existence. You know? Internet is kind of anti-humbling, in how easy it is to learn about so much in such a quick and often shitty way. It’s humbling when you can realize how much you still don’t know.
Okay I suddenly find myself no longer all that interested in this thought bye.
