Hmmmm…
Ok… As a woman I appreciate the effort the most…it’s not really about the thing thats given. With that being said though…don’t give her a tire iron in the thoughts that it’s romantic for her to be able to change her tire in a jam… LOL
Don’t just give your lady the token chocolates, lingerie, and flowers, unless she’s a complete freak about those types of things every other day of the year. Take the time to recall what she really likes to do and the things that she buys herself.
For instance… I love massages and spa treatments. Although I love it… I very rarley ever treat myself to those things, and Brian knows that. I also am very particular about all of my cosmetics and he knows exactly where I go to get everything that i buy. He’s got a built in idea of what to get me, just from paying attention to the things that he knows I enjoy…so he never has to go to Walgreens the day of to get that tacky velvet box of russell stovers chocolates and a bear that says " I LOVE YOU" on it.
If he did…i’d kill him… LOL
So if she likes a certain type of food…take her out for a nice dinner OR make her dinner!
If she’s into lingerie, take the time to look in her drawer and find out her sizes and the color and types of things that she’s picked out for herself…and where they’re from. If she reads, find a book that you think she would enjoy and write a sweet note inside of it. Just basically listen to what she says she likes and give accordingly…don’t go the generic route.
any genuine attempt at making her happy should be returned in like… and she’ll probably reward you…if ya know what I mean. LOL