I don’t remember, but I remember when he told us to skip him in the rotation, something like that…that whole weeekend was a little hazy
hahaha… ok pass the bowl… but not to my son… just skip him
ahhh weeed
I felt he had overdone the smoking at times (especially when I wasn’t with him), and so I felt the need on a few occasions to not pass to him.
I felt ambivilent about letting him smoke at the time. I knew he had many times before, but it was the only time he has with me (save for his first Panic show at 15). He’s not allowed to here at our home, although I know he occasionally does outside of our house, especially with his band.
This may seem like a paradoxical situation, but I feel it is a healthy way of letting him become an individual. I did it at his age, without my parents ever knowing, and led a parallel life from home. I lied a lot to my parents and hid all kinds of shit. We seek honesty and truth in our household, but also expect him to grow as an individual. Therein lies the reasoning.
Therefore, we have adopted a “don’t ask/don’t tell” situation regarding his activities in that aspect of his life. Sex is a different story. He gets condoms, and education on all of that issue. But casual pot smoking is a big part of a teenagers life these days. And I feel it’s intellectually stimulating, since it was for me in my life. As long as he doens’'t come home “ripped” or “blazed” or “wasted”, and uses moderation, it’s okay with me.
Hence, why I moderated his usage at Wakarusa.
at least he got to go to Waka 
lest we forget, the first official OKP meet up!
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I’ve got to believe Wes Mantooth is eating heaven bologna right now.
I still see dogs around that look like Wes Mantooth! I think he must be a shape shifter!